For many, a shared flat is the epitome of student life. Often very different people come together which most of them are in the same phase of life. They share the same interests to form a new “family” that everyone can connect with. A shared flat can be a very communicative place, where people cook and celebrate together or where friendships for life can sometimes develop. However, some students also prefer flatshares, for example. Simply sharing an apartment to save costs, but otherwise, everyone avoids each other and does not want anything to do with each other. You should know what to expect from a shared apartment before you move in. You should also know that, for example, a 6-person flatshare is not necessarily a haven of peace. You might have to stand in front of the bathroom with your legs crossed. You have to know how to find the right flatshare, how to look for ideal roommates, how to create a harmonious and pleasant coexistence, and of course what to consider with contractual matters
Checklist to find the perfect flatshare
- What demands do you have on your flatshare? Size of the room, location of the apartment, costs, etc.
- How many roommates would you like to gather around you permanently?
- Which roommates are compatible with you? Which new roommate is the right one for you?
- What paperwork should you know and trade with each other?
- What do you mean by harmonious coexistence?
What are the top factors for harmonious living in a flatshare?
Whether or not living together in a shared apartment is harmonious depends directly on the roommates. They must have the same attitude concerning cleanliness, noise, etc. So if you want to start living in a flatshare, choosing your roommates is essential. At best, you already know them relatively well and can thus realistically assess whether you could live together – or not. Nevertheless, conflicts or disagreements can arise in shared apartments, however harmonious they may be. Usually, these are disagreements about the rights and obligations of each roommate.
Overall, there are a few things to consider when you want a comfortable flatshare. Empathy, tolerance, cleanliness, mindfulness, and commitment are qualities that support and promote harmony. And if there are problems, feel free to speak openly about them. For example, a fixed flatshare evening once a month is suitable. In an emergency, you can have a drink without any problems. Living in a shared apartment can make your student days unforgettable and write good stories for eternity.
